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Eggplant Parmesan - A Family Feast

My husband Jack makes a really terrific Eggplant Parmesan – and we’re sharing the recipe with you today!  This is another one of those dishes that I’ve always loved to eat out at a restaurant, but I avoided cooking myself mostly because my cooked eggplant always tasted a little bitter to me.

But Jack’s recipe is fantastic! This eggplant parmesan is a stack of breaded eggplant slices that are lightly fried, leaving the outside perfectly crispy with a soft and creamy inside.  Then the eggplant is layered with a wonderful homemade tomato sauce and a combination of Fontina, mozzarella, parmesan and romano cheeses, and baked in the oven until the cheese is melted.

Don’t you want to dig your fork into this right now?

Eggplant Parmesan - A Family Feast

Jack also shares his tip in the recipe for removing the bitter taste from your cooked eggplant.  The trick is actually quite easy – just sprinkle both sides of the eggplant slices with a generous amount of salt and allow it to sit for up to two hours before cooking.  This salting process draws the bitter liquid out of the eggplant.  Then you rinse the eggplant slices – removing the excess salt and the bitter liquid – and you can proceed with cooking.

We hope you’ll agree – this eggplant parmesan is fantastic!

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Eggplant Parmesan - A Family Feast

Eggplant Parmesan

  • Prep Time: 2 hours
  • Cook Time: 30 mins
  • Total Time: 2 hours 30 minutes
  • Yield: 5 servings


Here’s a helpful hint: The cooking oil used to fry the eggplant in this recipe can be filtered and saved for another recipe or discard. Just filter the hot oil through a coffee filter to remove any solids from the oil. Many restaurants do this to avoid waste and it’s perfectly acceptable to do this at home as well.


  • 1 ¼ pounds eggplant, peeled and cut into slices about ½ inch thick (15 slices ranging in size from small to large)
  • Salt
  • 1 cup flour
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • ½ teaspoon black pepper
  • 3 eggs
  • 3 tablespoons milk
  • 1 ½ cups seasoned bread crumbs
  • Vegetable oil – enough to fill a 14 inch skillet with 1 inch of oil
  • 1 ½ quarts tomato sauce (see our recipe here), or your favorite jarred sauce
  • 1 cup freshly grated Parmesan cheese
  • ¼ pound Fontina cheese sliced
  • 1/8 cup freshly grated Romano cheese
  • ½ pound fresh mozzarella cheese
  • Your favorite pasta for serving


  1. After peeling and slicing the eggplant into 15 equal slices, lay them flat on your cutting board and sprinkle both sides with salt. (Don’t worry about over salting as it will get washed off later; this salting process draws out the bitterness of the eggplant.) Allow the slices to sit for 1 ½ to up to 2 hours at room temperature. Put the slices in a strainer and wash off the salt and the bitter liquid; pat the slices dry with paper towels.
  2. Lay out three large bowls. Place flour, salt and pepper in the first and stir. Place eggs and milk in the second and whisk well. Place the seasoned bread crumbs in the third. Have a plate at the end of the row to collect the breaded slices.
  3. Dip each slice of eggplant in flour and shake and tap off excess. Then dip in egg wash and finally in bread crumbs – coating both sides with all steps. Place on collection plate. Repeat until all eggplant is breaded.
  4. In a 14” skillet, heat the oil to 350 degrees. (Using a candy thermometer is helpful to ensure you get to the correct temperature.)
  5. Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
  6. Once the oil is hot, cook the eggplant in three batches. Cook for 1 to 1 ½ minutes on each side until golden brown. Remove to paper towels to drain. Lightly salt each slice as they come out of the hot oil.
  7. When you are done, you should have a collection of eggplant slices that are large, medium and small in diameter. Separate them into three sizes with five in each pile. Pour one cup of tomato sauce into the bottom of a 9×13-inch pan or baking dish. Place five large slices spread out into the bottom of the pan over the sauce.
  8. Sprinkle each slice with a teaspoon of Parmesan and a tablespoon of sauce. Cut Fontina into five portions and place a slice onto each eggplant circle. Then layer the medium slices on top of the Fontina. Cover each pile with another teaspoon of Parmesan, a tablespoon of tomato sauce and split the Romano between the five portions. Add final small slice on each of the five portions and top with a teaspoon of Parmesan on each and ¼ cup of tomato sauce on each. Divide the fresh mozzarella between the five portions and lay over the top.
  9. Insert a skewer or a tooth pick (without frills) into the center of each so they don’t slide apart while baking.
  10. Cook your pasta according to package directions while eggplant is baking.
  11. Cover the pan or dish with a sheet of parchment paper and a sheet of foil, shiny side facing the food. Seal tight around the edges and bake for 25 minutes. Uncover and bake for 5 minutes more. (The shiny side of foil reflects the heat so I always put dull side up.)
  12. Once the dish is done, let them sit for five minutes to set up. Remove the tooth picks and serve with pasta and tomato sauce with Parmesan cheese.

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  • Sue wrote:

    After searching for the “best of” recipe for the eggplant, I have decided to try yours. Being from a traditional Italian family, the steps seem quite new to me. As a family of one now, making anything in smaller portions is as foreign as salting before frying. So as I am typing this, I have my salted slices patiently lying on parchment paper. I have decided to write to you “before”, then “after”.I will say that you got me interested when I saw fontina and mozzerella~wish me luck! I am hungry already!!
    Thank you for sharing!

    • Martha wrote:

      Thanks for giving our recipe a try Sue! We hope you enjoyed the results!

  • MEEFER wrote:

    Is there a substitute for Fontina Cheese that you could recommend?

    • Martha wrote:

      Hi – We’d recommend mozzarella as a substitute for the Fontina. The Fontina melts easier than mozzarella so you might need to bake it a few minutes longer to get the same melting effect. Hope that helps!

  • Raphiel Mitchell wrote:

    If you notice my name it is RAPHIEL and I am a female a lot of people think my Iam a male. When I was 20 year old I went looking for a job. I mail my application out and they called me for a interview. When they seen me there mouth drop, because they thought I was a male needless to say I got the job. Now in my 73 years old I still get mail for a male.

    I love your recipes it bring back all the recipes and cooking I did with my mom. thank you so very much. And Bless you.

    • Martha wrote:

      Thank you for writing to us Raphiel! We’re glad you found us and I hope you enjoy our recipes as much as we do!

  • Erin wrote:

    The plastic wrap definitely melted.

    • Martha wrote:

      I’m sorry to hear that Erin! I’ve seen my husband use this technique many times without the plastic melting on us. To avoid any repeat issues, you could try using parchment paper instead of the plastic under the foil.

    • carolyn wrote:

      My plastic melted too! (Maybe since it was a generic version of Saran Wrap?)
      This recipe tastes awesome tho! Thanks for posting!

      • Martha wrote:

        Thanks for letting us know Carolyn!

  • Dawn W wrote:

    Hi Martha – Eggplant parmesan is my husband’s favorite restaurant dish and one I never make at home. When I saw this recipe I knew I had to make it for him our anniversary. Plus I had all the cheeses already. The only change I made was to add another layer and I used my own sauce recipe. This was one impressive dish! Thank you for the terrific recipe and one that is definitely a keeper!

    • Martha wrote:

      Hi Dawn! Thank you so much for letting us know…we’re so glad you and your husband enjoyed the recipe! Martha

  • Mary @ Fit and Fed wrote:

    I have kind of a love-hate thing going with eggplant– love baba ganoush and some Indian dishes with eggplant, but haven’t made the classic Eggplant Parmesan in a zillion years. The salting tip is a really good one, I’ve also heard that small eggplants are not bitter and am interested in trying this with some of the little Italian eggplants from the farmer’s market this year. Thanks!

  • Zach wrote:

    Your photos are stunning and your recipes sound delectable. We would love for you to share them at The Feasting Eye is still a bit new, but I think you will like what you see :-).

  • Medeja wrote:

    This eggplant parmesan really looks wonderful!

    • Martha wrote:

      Thanks Medeja!

  • Lori Who Needs A Cape? wrote:

    This looks amazing, one day I’ll be brave enough to try making it on my own. Pinning 🙂

    Not Your Average Super Moms!

    • Martha wrote:

      Thanks Lori!

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